August 21, 2026, a thought for today, A proverb says what man thinks. Swedish Proverb
Photos in my life yesterday
The first challenge was “bright”. The lights in the powder room are bright. The brightness is reflected in an art design in front of them.
Life today. What an unusual day this has been. Yesterday when I got home from printing the bulletin. I started the laundry. It was the first I have been in the basement since the rain off and on in the past seven days. The floor was totally wet with puddles here and there. The water had gotten so high it had knocked over the xtra large trash container I use for all of activities in the basement. After picking up the water logged trash and up turning the trash container, I was able to start the waster. When I came up my slippers and socks were soaked. That it the wettest the basement has ever been in the more than 50 years I have been here. When I went back down to move the laundry to the dryer it wouldn’t start. I left the clothes in a basket. I was way too tired to go to the laundromat then so I waited until today.
I went to the laundromat that Sue use to go to, they wouldn’t open until an hour after they usually do so an hour after I had gotten there. So I turned around and went to the one closer to my house. I am not use to using the laundromat. I put the money in the slot and the clothes in, pushed the button to start the dryer. I found that I had put the money in the dryer above the one I put the clothes in. A lady next to me helped me move the clothes. That was a learning experience that I should have acknowledged in the first place, pay attention to arrows. There were large arrows putting to which machine was up and which down.
When I was getting out of the car with the laundry Lowell pulled up behind me. I had forgotten that he was coming for the purpose he was here today. I had told him I wanted to switch it wifi television getting away from cable. He had come to take the cable boxes and hookups down. He also set up my smaller Roku tv in my bedroom. While he was here, I gave him a couple of other things on my list that I needed help with. He also checked out the dryer and said it is “fried”. So I will be going to the laundromat to use the dryer until we decide to pay to have checked/fixed or need to get new one. At least I will be more attuned to the up and down arrows next time.
With all that we got done on those projects I am way behind on the letter and the photos. The letter will go up today, the photos probably not until tomorrow. I still have a few things to put away from all of the changes we made as well as my laundry. Then I want to get my grocery order made for tomorrow.
The word today is cost. Experience teaches slowly and at the cost of mistakes. James A. Froude. The cost of a thing is the amount of what I call life which is required to be exchanged for it, immediately or in the long run. Henry David Thoreau. That laughter costs too much which is purchased by the sacrifice of decency. Quintilian. Hypocrisy can afford to be magnificent in its promises; for never intending to go beyond promises; it costs nothing. Edmund Burke. A good word is an easy obligation; but not to speak ill, requires only our silence, which costs nothing. John Tillotson. Old houses mended, Cost little less than new before they ’re ended. Colley Cibber. Animals have these advantages over man: they never hear the clock strike, they die without any idea of death, they have no theologians to instruct them, their last moments are not disturbed by unwelcome and unpleasant ceremonies, their funerals cost them nothing, and no one starts lawsuits over their wills. Voltaire. Civility costs nothing and buys everything. Lady Mary Wortley Montagu. Peace is costly, but it is worth the expense. Kenyan Proverb. Nothing costs less nor is cheaper than compliments of civility. Miguel de Cervantes. The cost of obedience is small compared with the cost of disobedience. Saint Augustine. When a man has cast his longing eye on offices, a rottenness begins in his conduct. Thomas Jefferson.
Article summary. I don’t think this article applies just to this action on line. It happens and shouldn’t when person to person also. The title is “Think twice before shouting your virtues online – moral grandstanding is toxic. Joshua B. Grubbs. Assistant Professor, Bowling Green State University. At theconversation.com. It starts out talking about how things in society have grown toward leaning on a thing called moral grandstanding. It is at such a state that psychologists are making it into a study. In one sentence the author called it as a “widespread nastiness (that) is both a social problem and a research opportunity.” An example of the moral grandstanding may be when a friend, makes extreme “proclamations” on social media about untrue and ideological claims about popular subjects of the day. They “promote” themselves to “seek status”. People who use this kind of exchange in carrying on a “conversation is a means to an end – not a free exchange of ideas”. As the article moves on, it says that it is common for normal humans to want “safety, love and belonging”. The grandstanding is a “special kind of status seeking” by using “topics solely to get attention or impress others”. Through some studies it was found that the grandstanders showed signs of “more experiences arguing with loved ones and severing ties with friends or family”. It seems the people with the moral grandstanding trait also used “toxic” behavior on social media and “picked” fights over political or moral issues. These types of people also, according to the article “ behave less moral” than other people. In trying to minimize boosting beyond respectful limits people should when they enter into a conversation where there are differences of opinions then consider would it be “connecting” with each other or trying to “score points”. The article ended by saying a way of to handle a moral grandstander situation would be by “depriving them of the attention they seek”.
Tuna Casserole for dinner.
Photos in my life today
The second assignment is another of “my choice” and anoter of my series of “mirror images”. It is one of my great grandsons many years ago when he was young.
Joy
a bonus image today is huge bouquet of bright colored and assorted poesies this was uploaded to a Fine Art America contest
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