July 24, 2026 a thought for today, When one door shuts, a hundred open. Spanish Proverb
Photos in my life yesterday
The first challenge was “a packet”. In this photo club we are doing photos related to food this month. So yesterday’s image was “a packet” of Cream of Wheat.
and a pair of pruning shears.
Life today. I left early enough to get things set up for Carolyn and I to get the newsletters ready to send out. There was a truck in the parking lot when I got there. Whoever was there didn’t follow me in the door. If he had knocked I most likely still wouldn’t have let him in as long as I was alone in the building. As it worked out he didn’t come to the door until after Carolyn had joined me. So I let him in and called Jack, it was about some electricity work that needed to be done.
Carolyn and I were able to do some bonding as Dorothy and I did when we worked together. We made good time in getting things done. Then I dropped the newsletters off at a mail box at Kroger. Last stop, I went to get Sue a chili cheese burrito a Taco Bell but they were closed due to a technical problem.
When I got home from the church my wifi was down, the internet, the TV and my house phone service. They were down until after one o’clock so all of my work on the letter and the photos are all quick picks for today. They all needed a computer.
Tami came by to help me with little things that I needed help with. It was so good to spend time with her. One of the things she did for me was up a stick-on art piece to the room separating blind that Lowell had put up for me a while back.
The word to ponder today is break. When you encounter difficulties and contradictions, do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time. Saint Francis de Sale. Never esteem anything as of advantage to you that will make you break your word or lose your self-respect. Marcus Aurelius Antoninus. Men keep agreements when it is to the advantage of neither to break them. Solon. An oppressed people are authorized whenever they can to rise and break their fetters. Henry Clay. Break the leg of a bad habit. Puerto Rican Proverb. A bruised reed shall he not break, and the smoking flax shall he not quench. Bible. Don't break your shin on a stool that is not in your way. Irish Proverb. The surface of American society is covered with a layer of democratic paint, but from time to time one can see the old aristocratic colors breaking through. Alexis De Tocqueville. Everything passes, everything breaks, everything wearies. French Proverb. What breaks in a moment may take years to mend. Swedish proverb. To fight and conquer in all your battles is not supreme excellence; supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting. Sun-Tzu. Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone. Proverbs 25:15. It is well to be up before daybreak, for such habits contribute to health, wealth, and wisdom. Aristotle.
Article summary. I was hoping this article touched on the kind of love in friendships not so much on the “partners” side of “love”. Also I wasn’t looking so much on the “meditation” way, I was thinking more on the emotional side. The title is This Valentine’s Day, try loving kindness meditation. Jeremy David Engels Liberal Arts Endowed Professor of Communication, Penn State. At theconversation.com. I did learn in the very first sentence something that I was not aware of, Valentine’s Day was “invented” in “the 1300s in medieval Europe”. I also paid attention to the statement “love is one of the richest and most diverse human emotions”. I wasn’t familiar with the term and full meaning of a term that is being used throughout the article, “loving kindness”. So I researched the term and found this definition loving-kindness, friendliness, and goodwill. It is a core Buddhist virtue and a cultivated mental state aimed at wishing true happiness and welfare for all beings without any self-interest”. So it looks like what I was originally looking for may be only a part of this message. At least it may be in “wishing true happiness and welfare”, in my estimation to all humans whose lives we touch. The article goes on to touch on cultivating a friend who is “someone who without fail and without demanding” and someone who supports you in “pain” and “happiness” without the least sign of jealousy. The article goes on to talk about an act of “practicing loving kindness” in meditation. I don’t know much about the practice of meditation only that it is supposed to “train” your by being completely still and “calm the mind”. I might personally have a problem with this kind of “exercise” as a way to accomplish a point, I can’t sit still and “quiet” that long. According to the article, in some of this “meditation” there involves the use of certain phrases to “focus the mind”. These phrases are ultimately meant to spread loving-kindness to a “wider circle of friends and loved ones”. So this article isn’t how I was thinking of self promoting an increase in “loving thy neighbor”. That could simply mean making a conscious effort toward that goal with care and respect.
It will be something from the freezer for dinner.
Photos in my life today
The second challenge is “a sauce”. I had a bottle of chili sauce on hand. I found it as I was searching for sauce of any kind that I may have ready and waiting for its ten seconds of fame.
Sue and together wouldn’t be able to eat one of those in a week. I do have watermelon chunks, I have them in the frig all the time to help with my acid reflux.
Joy
the bonus image is a macro or close up of yellow peony that was in one of my store bought bouquets and has been uploaded to a Fine Art America contest and my web page
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