July 4, 2026 a thought for today Little chips kindle the fire, and big logs sustain it. Portuguese Proverb
Photos in my life yesterday
The first challenge for yesterday was “my choice” “touch of color”. This is a whirligig stuck in one of my window gardens. I separated it from the back ground that I then turned to black and white.
that I had from last night’s dinner for this one. I added a small bunch of yellow grapes for a bit of sweet also.
Life today. This has been another of those days where there were unexpected moments. For one thing I had the tv on as I usually do. This time there was activity that pleasantly caught my attention more so than usual. First there was news of Taylor Swifts wedding which was a big event. Then there came the 4th of July celebration taking place in New York. I stopped what I was doing to watch part of that. It was amazing. There was a parade of the tall ships and the fly overs by military air craft, around 120 to 200 at separate time. As I understand it there were 41 ships from 21 countries. It was impressive. The festivity of it put me in mind of the Thanksgiving day parade in New York.
I picked up the groceries and got Sue and me McDonalds fish sandwiches on the way home. Just as I was getting it all put away and back to the computer Lowell and Rebecca stopped to finish up on the meds for Sue.
With all the starting and stopping on my momentum of computer and photo work, I am well behind on my “schedule”. It will soon be time to start some dinner.
The word to ponder today is back/backward. To get back my youth I would do anything in the world, except take exercise, get up early, or be respectable. Oscar Wilde. It's a poor sort of memory that only works backward. Lewis Carroll. In every work of genius we recognize our own rejected thoughts; they come back to us with a certain alienated majesty. Ralph Waldo Emerson. To know the road ahead, ask those coming back. Chinese Proverb. The man who backbites an absent friend, nay, who does not stand up for him when another blames him, the man who angles for bursts of laughter and for the repute of a wit, who can invent what he never saw, who cannot keep a secret - that man is black at heart: mark and avoid him. Cicero. Love flies, runs, and rejoices; it is free and nothing can hold it back. Thomas a Kempis. It is as hard to see one's self as to look backwards without turning around. Henry David Thoreau. A small rock holds back a great wave. Homer. The man who in view of gain thinks of righteousness; who in the view of danger is prepared to give up his life; and who does not forget an old agreement however far back it extends - such a man may be reckoned a complete man. Confucius. He who is carried on another's back does not appreciate how far off the town is. African Proverb. If you look back, you'll soon be going that way. American Proverb. Once the game is over, the king and the pawn go back into the same box. Italian Proverb. We cannot live only for ourselves. A thousand fibers connect us with our fellow men; and among those fibers, as sympathetic threads, our actions run as causes, and they come back to us as effects. Herman Melville. It is equally wrong to speed a guest who does not want to go, and to keep one back who is eager. You ought to make welcome the present guest, and send forth the one who wishes to go. Homer. Look not mournfully into the Past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the Present. In is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy Future, without fear, and a manly heart. Henry Wadsworth Longfellow. One can pay back the loan of gold, but one dies forever in debt to those who are kind. Malayan Proverb.
Article summary. I honor trustworthy people. I like the feel of being able to trust someone. It is a comforting feeling and shows me a worthy friend whom one can feel safe with. I thought I would have a look at what this philosopher/author had to say about it. The title is On Trusting: is it naïve or wise to trust? Laura D'Olimpio, Lecturer in Philosophy, University of Notre Dame Australia. At theconversation.com/us. It starred by pointing out that trusting is a vulnerable position, a place of wide-open feelings. Trust is also a value to be “cultivated”. It is something we should cultivate in our own lives. Here it is called a “relational attitude”. People feel differently about expectations on relationships. When they are not “met” there may be a feeling of “betrayal”. In conversations about trust some may tell about how they have been hurt by trusting someone then when the trust didn’t happen as expected there was a feeling of betrayal. The article goes on to say that it would be sad to never be able to trust anyone once there has been a betrayal. It relays how we cannot do almost anything without some kind and level of trust including business like banks, restaurants and more. I was surprised to read that based on one research project “it appears that fewer and fewer people think that others can be trusted”, that makes me sad. One of the reasons suggested for that was the decline in “media sources such as the 24-hour news cycle that generates fear and feelings of mistrust”. It is mentioned in the article that social interactions help to” generate a feeling of belonging and well being” also helping in protecting the rights of minorities builds trust. Those suggestions can result in “happier and more trusting citizens”. Another important factor in building trust is “role modeling done by parents”. Children need to learn about trust because it should be a “fundamental *prosocial attitude” developed early in childhood. Trust makes us vulnerable yet is “still better to trust than to not”. “Knowing who and when to trust is a matter of practical wisdom”.
I think it will be creamed chicken on biscuits for dinner.
Photos in my life today
to give it a “dreamy” look.
Joy
the bonus image for today is "play on colors" uploaded to my Fine Art America in a contest and in my shop
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**(prosocial behavior encompasses any voluntary action intended to help, benefit, or comfort others)































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